tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3668667953725377101.post6411744813898884680..comments2023-02-14T07:29:05.887-05:00Comments on Hope Delayed: It's Official... BFNLorahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03333972592403553177noreply@blogger.comBlogger41125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3668667953725377101.post-44159688869080710752012-03-31T00:22:35.138-04:002012-03-31T00:22:35.138-04:00How are you doing hun? Thinking about you!How are you doing hun? Thinking about you!Jesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07267965587047367494noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3668667953725377101.post-52123978059727960322012-03-29T20:14:32.810-04:002012-03-29T20:14:32.810-04:00Hey, are you ok? Haven't heard from you in awh...Hey, are you ok? Haven't heard from you in awhile and just checking in.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3668667953725377101.post-68848002452825514042012-03-26T11:36:54.258-04:002012-03-26T11:36:54.258-04:00I'm so sorry about how this cycle turned out f...I'm so sorry about how this cycle turned out for you. And I'm more sorry that you have questions about embryo quality that can't really be answered right now, and even with doctors saying things are fine, that nagging in the back never makes ANY decision easier, much less when to start again. Sometimes, though, I really just think that we need to follow our guts, no matter how much it defies the logic or the medicine or the science. I wish I'd done that with my first pregnancy. My son would be alive today, had I. If you strongly feel like you may have an issue with embryo quality, or with you that maybe wasn't detected before, I'd get that cleared up and save yourself that nagging and the heartache of not knowing. It's so hard. Again, my most sincere apologies. I wish it was different for you.Lorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01828552745708177768noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3668667953725377101.post-59592027352515432172012-03-23T21:14:36.224-04:002012-03-23T21:14:36.224-04:00I'm so sorry that you are going through this. ...I'm so sorry that you are going through this. I hope the next round gives a happier result.<br /><br />ICLW #61Trishahttp://theelusivesecondline.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3668667953725377101.post-57309214927942876052012-03-23T10:56:22.582-04:002012-03-23T10:56:22.582-04:00I so sorry that it has been so hard! Good luck wi...I so sorry that it has been so hard! Good luck with the FET!Mark and Amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02568782420855476791noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3668667953725377101.post-28334263998832622222012-03-22T23:26:51.186-04:002012-03-22T23:26:51.186-04:00Lora - First, I'm your sock buddy and after re...Lora - First, I'm your sock buddy and after reading your story, I'm so happy to find you some really great socks for the FET. I'm sorry about the chemical pg...I had one 6 months ago. I hope the FET goes smoothyly!Mrs Green Grasshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02458001574184407164noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3668667953725377101.post-29756576965671541952012-03-22T02:37:28.568-04:002012-03-22T02:37:28.568-04:00Sorry, this sucks ;( Good luck on your next proced...Sorry, this sucks ;( Good luck on your next procedure.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3668667953725377101.post-60755558674919806412012-03-22T00:49:54.880-04:002012-03-22T00:49:54.880-04:00Hi Lora. I am sorry for the delayed reply - we ha...Hi Lora. I am sorry for the delayed reply - we have been away in NZ. I was devastated to read your post. I hope that you are holding up ok. Have you thought of having more blood tests done? I've written more about this in my last few posts - I've discovered I have a gene mutation of my blood which can cause clotting and even fine clots can cause implantation failure (as the invasion & connection of the embryo's blood vessels with the mother's is such a delicate process). My doctors have been saying our infertility is unexplained for years, but sometimes it's worth pushing for more tests. That said, take this time out to rest and recuperate. I am so glad I've taken two months off myself! Lots of hugs to you. B xxxBWhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02678105236745432509noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3668667953725377101.post-1051231460568943882012-03-21T23:07:15.505-04:002012-03-21T23:07:15.505-04:00Thinking of you and praying for hope.Thinking of you and praying for hope.Louhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15326761121201314233noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3668667953725377101.post-49755203125792760352012-03-19T21:29:41.539-04:002012-03-19T21:29:41.539-04:00Just started following you...so sorry to read abou...Just started following you...so sorry to read about how long and painful this journey has been for you. Sounds like a few days away might be a nice thing to look forward to while going through this long and tortuous path toward motherhood. Thinking of you and cheering you on for your next FET.Lhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10497936584795239975noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3668667953725377101.post-15802363238397490762012-03-17T17:36:45.833-04:002012-03-17T17:36:45.833-04:00One other thing you could consider is getting your...One other thing you could consider is getting your embryos tested to see if they are chromosomally normal. Chromosomal abnormalities are the more frequent cause of miscarriages - if you test for them you can then only transfer "normals."<br /><br />Either way, I'm sorry you have to go through this. Hopefully this next FET will work for you - you have 2 more chances, which is great!newbiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02779719410948226318noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3668667953725377101.post-11711312377855177782012-03-16T13:17:40.902-04:002012-03-16T13:17:40.902-04:00I'm sorry Lora. I am glad you guys talked it o...I'm sorry Lora. I am glad you guys talked it over and made the right decision for you two. Take the time you need. I hope you have a great trip! Here for you. Hugz!Emily @ablanket2keephttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10398858102692984237noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3668667953725377101.post-6266707400102066382012-03-15T20:06:16.086-04:002012-03-15T20:06:16.086-04:00I can't imagine how difficult this is for you ...I can't imagine how difficult this is for you and your husband. I truly hope your baby is waiting for you and this FET is the answer to your prayers. I hope this trip is just what you need to treat yourselves after such a tough loss. I will be thinking about you and I hear the FET round is an easier ride compared to IVF, no one should have to go through that EVER let alone more than once :( I really admire you for sharing your story so openly and inspiring others struggling with IF. Keep your head up and I'll be following along waiting for your good news :)Rachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14312055314482060320noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3668667953725377101.post-29549758175709440352012-03-15T16:49:40.083-04:002012-03-15T16:49:40.083-04:00So sorry to hear :( I definitely think you should ...So sorry to hear :( I definitely think you should go on your trip and try to enjoy yourself!futuresupermomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15408294695341249055noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3668667953725377101.post-16255534270596287832012-03-15T08:35:35.480-04:002012-03-15T08:35:35.480-04:00I'm so sorry :( We decided to take a break bet...I'm so sorry :( We decided to take a break between our failed IUIs and our first IVF and I am so glad we did. We really recharged our batteries. This time, after IVF#1 we were forced to break for 6 weeks while I recovered and went back on BCP in preparation. But I am glad we needed to wait a bit. It's been a nice break from needles and appointments. Hang in there!Her Royal Fabulousnesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04008723588326617669noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3668667953725377101.post-30739481076996177852012-03-15T01:51:07.200-04:002012-03-15T01:51:07.200-04:00I'm praying for healing and comfort, Lora. Yo...I'm praying for healing and comfort, Lora. You deserve some R&R after giving it your all the past few months and hope the trip helps. Check out griefshare.org - it's helped me with my bag of emotions. Hugs!Lizhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12492071508480230857noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3668667953725377101.post-21351756081850616442012-03-14T17:57:50.540-04:002012-03-14T17:57:50.540-04:00I'm so sorry. IF is such a murky area, its dis...I'm so sorry. IF is such a murky area, its disheartening when you realize even the experts can only do so much.<br /><br />I discovered I was vitamin D deficient after my second loss, and since then I've spent an unbelievable amount of time reading up on it. According to one study 91 % of infertile women are deficient and it strongly implicated in both female and male infertility- maybe its a good idea to get both yours and hubby's levels checked and become replete for the next round--- I've given plenty of references for how it is involved in infertility here.<br /><br />http://aboutplanb.blogspot.com/p/science-of-in-fertility.html<br /><br />Best of luck with the next round!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15553205805046479504noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3668667953725377101.post-58105039224732981952012-03-14T17:00:35.749-04:002012-03-14T17:00:35.749-04:00I'm so sorry Lora. It's so unfair, I know ...I'm so sorry Lora. It's so unfair, I know you're so unbelievably ready for your take home baby. I'm thinking of you, xoxo.Izzyhttp://eggceptionalblues.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3668667953725377101.post-33629706027691984222012-03-14T16:54:12.823-04:002012-03-14T16:54:12.823-04:00I'm so sorry Lora. I wish you had gotten bette...I'm so sorry Lora. I wish you had gotten better news.It's easy to feel rushed and like your wasting time by waiting, but sometimes that's what your body, mind and soul need. Hoping this month goes by quickly and you are preparing for your FET before you know it!Hattiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03166768638822479118noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3668667953725377101.post-75695296943890514072012-03-14T12:14:29.020-04:002012-03-14T12:14:29.020-04:00Lora,
I am so sorry. Take all the time you need so...Lora,<br />I am so sorry. Take all the time you need so you can go into your FET strong willed and hopeful. Sucks our disappointments need time to heal but it can be the best thing for us. I am so glad to tear you have a trip planned and some fun on the horizon. Thinking of you!Joys Trulyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07542444103776163977noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3668667953725377101.post-39815756457252365382012-03-14T08:56:16.023-04:002012-03-14T08:56:16.023-04:00I am so sorry! I was really hoping this was the on...I am so sorry! I was really hoping this was the one for you! Big hugs!LeslieGailhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08659562153250075178noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3668667953725377101.post-22725855810704335822012-03-13T22:13:34.356-04:002012-03-13T22:13:34.356-04:00So sorry.
http://43andchildless.blogspot.com/So sorry. <br />http://43andchildless.blogspot.com/Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3668667953725377101.post-67069461328274606462012-03-13T21:52:58.073-04:002012-03-13T21:52:58.073-04:00Oh no, I'm so so sorry. I didn't want to t...Oh no, I'm so so sorry. I didn't want to take time off after our BFN but we are and it feels right. It's nice to feel somewhat normal for awhile and not feel restricted or overly anxious. I hope you enjoy your little getaway regardless of what y'all decide. I'm praying for hope and peace!!Louhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15326761121201314233noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3668667953725377101.post-26876290480009315122012-03-13T18:46:25.751-04:002012-03-13T18:46:25.751-04:00Ugh. I'm sorry. :( The trip might be a good th...Ugh. I'm sorry. :( The trip might be a good thing for you guys if you feel you need a break!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3668667953725377101.post-11447715066865578932012-03-13T17:35:28.793-04:002012-03-13T17:35:28.793-04:00I'm so sorry to hear that. :( I think that tak...I'm so sorry to hear that. :( I think that taking some time will be a good thing! Hugs!Living Our Life in Cycleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06985632430618813718noreply@blogger.com